Tinder Hookup
About a year ago I heard from more and more guys how they get laid multiple times a month without much effort. They said with the help of Tinder they hooked up more times in the last months than they did in the last years.
I tried it out but for some reason Tinder didn’t work for me, I got just a few matches, and it was hard to get even one number after a week. So I tough it was bullshit and deleted the app again.
My one and only hookup on Tinder. Convince a fine looking redhead to go out on a date to a hookah bar. I don't know what I was thinking because I can't smoke for shit but she handled it like a champ. Turns out we were both past our college hookah stage (not that I ever really got into it) so the next date was out to a fancy bar to drink and eat.
- Mar 26, 2019 Tinder is undoubtedly among the best dating apps for so many good reasons. However, its popularity has increased the competition among people. To get the matches, you’ve to be unique, interesting and well prepared. You’ve to be different, if not hot, to turn the tables around in your favor and the first step to do is use tinder pick up.
- Step #2: Tinder hook up openers. Time to arm you with the best hook up openers. And possibly shock you with a plot twist. In the last tip, I just told you to step away from aimless chit chat. If you want to hook up, you want to arm yourself with texts that are funny, teasing, and even challenging.
Until I found a few articles (1,2,3) about the rise of STD (sexually transmitted diseases) within the past few years and that apps like Tinder are mainly responsible for this increase. It affected especially young people between the ages of 15 – 24.
That’s sick, right? One more reason you should always wear a condom. But it also showed me that Tinder seems to work really good, for some people. Why didn’t it work for me? This had to change, so I spend a whole year to find out every little trick that could improve my results.
Today I don’t need more than 30 minutes to find a new girl and get laid with her. To remember everything, I wrote down all the things I’ve found out and summarized it. I tough about publishing it, but it was so powerful that I wanted to keep it to myself, because when everyone is doing it, the effect will fade. However, my brother gave me the idea that I could block people from my country to access this site. Call me crazy but I blocked every country except five. This means more action for me, and luckily you seem to have access so more action for you too.
The Big Misconception about Tinder and Hookups
My first step was to find out what’s going on in their mind; I had to understand the female perspective. The easy way would be to ask girls who are using Tinder “How do you decide which guy you are going to hook up with?”. Unfortunately, most of the time girls can’t explain why they do this or that, especially when her feelings are involved. “It just happened” is the answer you’ll get. Men are primary making decisions based on logic but women make emotional decisions based on how she feels in that moment.
Some of you might think “Sean, why are you talking about emotions, I just want to get laid!”. We tend to think that emotions are only necessary if you want to find a girlfriend and connect on a deeper level and so on. But in reality girls are much more logical when they decide with which guy they are having a relationship than with which guy they want to sleep.
Mistake #1 – Thinking like a man
A guy thinks logically and acts actively with a plan in mind: “I want to hook up with some hot girls and I heard tinder would be the easiest way for that. My plan is to get some numbers, then dates and hopefully she’ll let me fuck her on the first date”. That’s it and I’m sure you were thinking similar.
=> Purpose: Getting laid.
Contrary to a girl, let’s call her Olivia, who acts upon her feelings without a clear intention or plan in mind: “I’m feeling bored and a little lonely… hmm it’s been a few months since I broke up with my ex and I’m single quite a while now. Whatever, the right guy will come eventually. But what if he doesn’t I’m getting older and maybe I’m not so attractive anymore. I should try this Tinder; Ashley said it’s funny, I’ll have some nice flirts and maybe Mr. Right comes along.”
=> No purpose, just motivations like Validation, Entertainment, Romance.
Mistake #2 – Creating a Hookup-Persona
Most think that if you want to get laid on Tinder, you just need to take some half nude mirror-selfies after pumping up in the gym, turn her on with some dirty texts and send dick pics. This might work on Grindr but it won’t bring you much success on Tinder.
When we see half nude girls posting mirror selfies and sending dirty lines, we get turned, so why shouldn’t it work the other way round?
There are several reasons for this:
1. Girls are less attracted to visual things than men.
2. It kills the anticipation and shows that you are too easy.
3. They can get those stuff from every guy, it’s not exciting like it is for you.
4. It makes them lose trust because they know that you send this to every girl.
Mistake #3 – Making her feel like a slut
Tinder is known to be a Hookup App, but that doesn’t mean you can treat girls like prostitutes. No girl wants to be a slut, even if she had over 20 sex partners, she wouldn’t want anyone to see her as a slut. It would mean she’s cheap, guys would treat her with less respect, and if they spread the word about her, she would lose her face in the society.
The funny thing is, no matter how many hookups she already had, she will never admit being a slut. She doesn’t even confess is to herself most of the times.
What does this teach us? Avoid everything that makes her feel this way! This includes sending dirty lines or photos upfront, trying to arrange a sex-date and talking about sex too early.
Mistake #4 – Not understanding female sexuality
She will probably end up getting laid because girls love having sex with different partners as much as we do. But it’s a little more complicated, here’s what you need to be aware of:
- Getting laid is not her primary intention. The number of girls on Tinder that are actively searching for someone to fuck is low. Most of them just want to meet a few guys, have some fun and see where things are going.
- Trust and comfort are required. In order to get seduced, she needs to let loose and feel comfortable with you. Built trust by removing her main fears like being judged, meeting a weird person or getting raped.
- The foreplay begins before the date. Male arousal is like a light switch, it’s either on, or off. Female arousal is more like a volume knob. It’s an evolving process, and she needs to be warmed up before it gets dirty.
Mistake #5 – Thinking that girls who dress sexy are easy
A very helpful and time-saving skill that you need on Tinder is being able to filter girls. Let’s assume you’ve got a match with a good looking girl, there are three categories she can be placed in.
- Attention Whore: These girls are stealing your time. It’s easy to fall into their trap because they often dress sexy and look easy. However, it’s difficult to get them on a date because they use Tinder mainly to get validation and to be entertained.
- Girlfriend Material: There are also a lot of girls on Tinder, who are looking for a serious relationship. There are little clues that help you differentiate between hookup and girlfriend material.
- Hookup Material: The famous “Not looking for hookups” in her bio doesn’t mean anything. It’s the result of mistake #3, a protection of her ego because she doesn’t want anyone to think she’s a slut.
Now you know about the most common mistakes and got a view into the female mind. This should help you to get a better understanding what’s going on. Next I’m going to show you how to do it the right way, let’s start with the opening:
How to avoid her Spam-Filter
Olivia starts using Tinder the way I described it in mistake #1 and within a couple minutes she swipes right on a guy who seems to be attractive. It’s a match! Yay.. then the next one, another match. This continues with every guy she likes until she has about ten matches. Most of them have already written “Hey”; “How are you?”; “You’re so beautiful!”..
So many chats that need to be answered. What starts as something fun, quickly becomes stressful. In order to avoid the stress, her mind turns into a spam-filter, just like your email-inbox. Within seconds, she filters out all the crap by simply ignoring it. In her case, these are all of the boring and creepy messages. It’s different for each girl, dependent how many guys she matches with and how willing she is to have a conversation. On average at least 80% of all texts will be ignored to concentrate on the ones who seem to be interesting.
How do you write a message, which captures her interest? There are five ways how you can create a successful Tinder line yourself. In order to help you remember them, I divided them in the following parts:
Personal. Give her the impression that you are interested in her as a person. Writing her name is one step in the right direction. Take a closer look at her bio and each of her photos, is there anything unusual or interesting? Bring up something about it. Try to guess what type of person she is and make statements about her. It doesn’t matter if you’re right, even if you’re completely wrong, it gives you something to continue the conversation with.
Entertaining. Girls just wanna have fun. Be playful and funny, a laugh is always beneficial and makes it much easier to proceed. The hottest girls are not desperately searching for a boyfriend. They use it for entertainment, it’s your job to get them attracted. Pro-Tip: Make up a short story or a joke about her, but be careful it can easily backfire if she is sensitive and you cross her line.
Nifty. I made sure that the pickup lines, which I’m going to give you later on, are not popular yet. You don’t want to use a line that she has already read before. It won’t work, it’s lame and she probably won’t answer, because she will feel like one of many. The easiest way to be unique is to …
Irritating. A direct opener would be “You look really sexy in that dress”. She instantly knows what you mean and that she can have you anytime. If you say something like “You look like trouble”, it makes her think for a moment, why you said that about her and whether it’s a good or bad thing. This way you catched her attention and she is much more likely to reply.
Short. Don’t write more than two sentences in your first message. Many guys are writing her, therefore girls on Tinder are lazy and have a short attention span. If your opening line is too long, she won’t read it. You can increase your effort, after she proves that she is worth it. For an attractive guy she is just another pretty face, so keep your value.
I guess you noticed it, if you don’t: read the first letters of every point. Together they create the word P.E.N.I.S. I’m sure that will make it stick. So next time you write a girl on tinder, just remember the P.E.N.I.S. – Opening Method.
Now you got all the knowledge you need to create your own opening lines. This way you can be absolute sure, that she has never heard them before. However, if you want something that you can use right away, here are some of the best hookup lines. Use them to start a conversation on tinder especially if you want to get laid.
Tinder Hookup Lines – 5 Examples that help you get laid
All the advice in this article is proven to work, primarily because most guys are clueless, so it gives the ones that know about it a great advantage. A few thousand men are reading my free tinder articles every day so to keep the advice powerful, I have to limit the number of people who are using the tips.
That’s why the following part is only for guys, who like us on Facebook or Twitter. Don’t worry this article will not appear just the SoulmateSystem.
Thank you for liking us! Here are the hookup lines:
- Do your parents know your using Tinder?
- You must have driven your parents crazy.
- You look like trouble!
- My mother warned me about girls like you.
- You look so shy and innocent but maybe I’m wrong?
5 are not enough? Here are some bonus lines:
- We would never get along
- We could never date. It would be just fights and make up sex
- You are either the coolest girl on Tinder or a fucking weirdo!
- I know that beautiful smile, you are totally evil.
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Hate it or love it, nowadays if you’re single and looking for some quick fun, Tinder is one of the most popular options to turn to. Nearly a third of Millennials admitted using Tinder. More than half of my friends had some real Tinder hookup experiences. Being an avid user of dating apps myself, including Tinder, Pure, all Cupids, and many others, I also have a lot to share.
Tinder got its name for a reason
The good news is that nearly anyone can get a piece of Tinder sex as long as you know how to play your cards. You’ll have to work on your profile, understand the basic rules of attraction, and always be respectful towards others. Although there’s no lack of women using Tinder to get laid, my guide is mainly dedicated to the guys. Let’s face it, girls don’t usually have a problem with landing a hookup and it is your responsibility to understand and accept a woman’s intentions before you try something.
If you’re after the gay Tinder hookup, there are some apps like adam4adam that can make a better alternative. Now, I’m not an expert in the LGBT area, but if you’re a straight guy looking for Tinder hookup tips, I’ve got you covered.
Your first task on using a Tinder hookup app like a pro is to get some matches. Now, if you think that swiping right on everyone you see is a great idea, it is not. First of all, Tinder algorithms will quickly mark you as a spammer. Secondly, you may end up matching with people you don’t really like. And finally, that’s just not ethical. Don’t be desperate. You’ll get your match eventually if you follow some basic rules.
However, if you want to see what happens if you do swipe right on everyone and then send a sex offer to all of them, watch this Tinder hookup video:
And one more thing, if you’re not willing to play the hunting game at all, try using apps like AdultFriendFinder to save some time.
Fix your profile
One of my friends gave up on Tinder because “the girls there are only hooked on the look” and “it is like Instagram but for dating.” While some of this might be true, you need to remember that Tinder has a huge userbase and all kinds of people are using it. If you’re looking for a Tinder tranny, however, you’ll be better off with a niche app.
I’ve seen a few profiles of girls who are clearly using Tinder to broaden their client base, so you might as well search them on UsaSexGuide. While there’s nothing wrong with being a sex worker, that’s probably not what you look for on Tinder. Just don’t get distracted.
Your best strategy will be to look and sound confident, funny, and honest. The looks are important but they are still secondary.
One of my female friends likes to share her Tinder hookup stories with me and very often they start with “He is not my type, but there was something about him.”
If you know that your looks are not your main advantage, focus on presenting your irresistible personality instead.
Choose the photos
Regardless of your appearance, you’ll have to work with what you have. There are two main don’ts of uploading photos on Tinder: don’t use your old pictures and don’t use misleading ones. Also, it is better not to use pictures with other people as you don’t want to distract a girl with your handsome brother, not that good-looking best friend, pretty sister, etc. Focus on yourself.
Even if you’re a workout enthusiast, it might be a good idea not to upload a bunch of gym selfies. One is more than enough. However, a lot of girls find gym selfies superficial and swipe left on them. If your body is something that you’re really proud of, try posting a beach picture instead.
Think of what impression you want to make and let the pictures speak for themselves. What are you passionate about? What makes you stand out? And sometimes it is better to settle with a few decent pics.
Also, you can enable a “smart photo” function to raise your chances of Tinder hookup. The app will automatically detect your most successful pic and use it as your main one. Rumor has it, it does increase the number of people swiping right.
Edit your bio
Profiles with no bio are suspicious and make you look lazy. Profiles with bad jokes aren’t helping you either. When you write that you’re bored and horny, even if that’s true, 99% that you will not end up in bed because of that line. Also, you don’t need to use all the 500 symbols just because you can. Witty and straight to the point profile info is what you’re after.
I’ve come across so many profiles that say they won’t reply to people who cannot come up with something rather than “Hi” or “How are you”. Or the profiles that only mention what type of people they dislike. Don’t be negative and complicated. That’s not sexy.
The art of conversation
You might think that matching with someone is half-way to success but it’s not all that simple. Tinder is famous for its silent matches. People match and move on, caught in the maze of the swiping game.
You have to be active and make the first move
You need to learn to move on when it’s obvious that you have no chances. And also, don’t stress it and try to have fun.
Be honest but not gross
Although you need to make sure you are on the same page with the person you’re talking to, I wouldn’t recommend starting a conversation with something too upfront. A friend of mine said she will never forget a guy who started the chat with a cheesy “I think it’s a love from the first sight” and without further ado suggested she sits on his face. Girls get messages like this all the time. Trust me, you won’t look funny.
Have a proper chat first, be a little mysterious, flirt, make her feel curious, and only after that move on with sexting or offering a real-life Tinder hookup.
Don’t be needy
If she doesn’t reply, that means she is not interested. If you send her twenty more messages, that will not increase your chances to get a reply. In fact, you’ll end up being blocked. Don’t waste your time and move on, there’s plenty of fish in the sea.
Best Tinder Hookup Lines
There is no recipe for success. Otherwise, there would be just Tinder hookup success stories all over the web. But I’ve got a few interesting examples that might inspire you. Here’s a sample of how “the Tinder magic” usually happens.
When thinking of a perfect punchline, being funny is important. A good sense of humor may help you land a Tinder hookup. Or not. You can be funny but never get past the chatting stage. It is also important to be confident and do not go overboard with your jokes.
If you can’t help being honest, you might as well use your imagination. And by the way, if you’re not ready to wait until you find a girl that also looks for a fling, use Pure. People use it for a reason and that reason is not treading waters.
Tinder hookup tips for when you landed a date
There’s no secret that it is generally easier to get laid if you’re a girl. When we talk about something casual, women don’t usually have to worry that the guy rejects their hookup offer. And when a girl decides to have a fling, all she cares about is her safety.
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She should be able to trust a guy, so respect her and make her feel comfortable.
- Be honest and respectful. Giving false promises and manipulating is off the table. Treat others like you want to be treated yourself.
- Don’t drink too much. While a glass or two are good for calming the never down, do not overdo it. That’s not good for your bedroom performance, takes some fun out of the whole process, and might even ruin your date.
- Leave room for intrigue. Don’t get to the point straight away and don’t just talk about sex all the time. This can be creepy and alarming. Leave the fun stuff for later.
Don’t get discouraged if the date didn’t go exactly as you planned. Learn from your mistakes and do better the next time.
Tinder features to increase your hookup chances
Now, is it worth paying for Tinder? Will it help you with hooking up? The short answer is, probably not too much. But let’s look into its premium features in detail.
Unlimited Likes
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If you weren’t convinced with my advice to not swipe on everyone you see and still want to try your luck, it will make sense to pay for Tinder plus. This way it won’t block you because of spamming activities.
See who likes you
Premium membership allows you to see everyone who swiped right on you. This way you can guarantee yourself a few matches. But matching is only a part of the way, you still have to be cool and creative.
Practice makes perfect. But even the funniest punchlines won’t necessarily help you get a date. It is the combination of all the above-mentioned factors that work.
Profile Boost
If you think that your profile is close to perfection, you can consider buying a Premium to show it off. Otherwise, it would be just a waste of money.
Swipe globally
If you’re planning a trip, you can prepare your dates in advance with the “Passport” feature. I personally think this is a cool feature that is worth paying for if you travel often. Besides, when everyone knows that you have limited time to seal the deal, magic happens faster.
Conclusion
The truth is, even if you look like Brad Pitt and have a killer sense of humor, chances are that you will still get rejected on Tinder. A lot of people use it out of boredom and not to keen to meet IRL. But working on your profile, being honest, funny, and respectful can help you with charming someone soon. And if you’re not ready to put too many efforts, try using a hookup-focused app instead.
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